Online Privacy – Chatting online and having fun like cyber sex and phone sex are wonderful for people looking to maintain some level of privacy in their online social activities. Many assume ones are not into cam sex because they must be ugly and this is why they are “hiding themselves”. Not at all, many are either simply not aroused by watching a stranger shake their junk, or else they are worried about their privacy.
Can I Trust You? – People blackmailing others by recording cam shows is a sad reality for some. You never know who you are dealing with on the other side of the computer screen. I laughed one time when some guy opened his cam, I hadn’t asked him to as it’s not an interest of mine, and I swear he had a bandanna over his face from the nose down like a bank robber. He had what he felt was a penis deformity and wanted my opinion, I kid you not. And, truth be told, it DID look deformed! The bandanna mask did take me aback as much as his deformed cock though. I thought he must have been burned once to do such a thing, and he didn’t know me well enough to know I was no threat.
Give Me Some Privacy – Many are self conscious about their looks as it is, and I don’t ask for pics as a rule, as long as their voice is what I want, I really do not need to see. Men being the visual creatures that they are however, often want to see who they are really talking to. If you refuse to go on cam you are accused of being everything from a man to very ugly. Many online are so suspicious, and many online have lied, so ones that have had such experiences often think the worst of everyone and assume the worst in all cases. Some things really are best left to the imagination.
Free Web Cam Sex – Many come to an adult chat site looking for a partner for various activities like phone sex, cyber sex or web cam sex. All of them can certainly spice up your masturbation and take them to the next level of excitement. Alone just doesn’t cut it anymore for many of us once we discover how much better it is sharing it with another person. Most men are very visual and the thought of watching someone else masturbate is very arousing to most.
Can I Watch – Men do also seem to for the most part have strong tendencies to show off and want to have girls watch them. As visual as they are they seem to like to show themselves off on web cam just as much. Web cam sex is like porn they are themselves a part of. Not all guys are looking for a paid service when it comes to watching, cam girls have their place, but it is still a one sided experience for the benefit of the paying participant, it’s not a mutual exchange in the truest sense, the woman is participating because they are getting paid, not because they are there to have fun as well. Some guys are happy with their own personal peep show just for them, but others want the other partner to be really do it for fun as well.
Find Online Masturbation Partners – Adult chat rooms are an excellent place to find like minded others looking for the same kinds of naughty fun as you are. Inboxing people on their profile pages as well, since some that come to adult community website are not really into chat rooms, yet they enjoy looking at others profile pages and sending them a private message instead. Forum invite threads are also a great place to find partners looking for the same kinds of fun you are, they are like the bulletin board of the website. So if free web cam sex is what you are looking for, by all means try the chat rooms, sending private messages to ones that have that listed as an interest, or look in the forum invite threads, hopefully it won’t take you long to find someone. And by all means, do report anyone that is advertising their services as a cam girl, giving links to their site, etc., that is not allowed here and they will be banned.
Look At Me – Cam sex is popular with many people, they love watching another person get off in front of them via the webcam, it’s like “personalized porn” in a way! How many guys have asked me if I’d like to watch over the years since I’ve been chatting online, easily hundreds that have, yet it’s not my thing. They just cannot grasp it doesn’t excite someone if it does them . It’s like, “I LOOVVVVEEE it SOOOOO much!!! How can you NOT love it too????”
Can I Watch – Be my guest to shake your dick for others over webcam , go right ahead, but I will not be a party to it. Then some will ask, “Well, if you don’t like it, maybe I can just watch you!” Um, that’s a NO. I’ll leave it to the porn stars, that’s what they are there for, to arouse the masses with their animated displays. So many guys that have been well endowed by Mother Nature are very proud of their members and wish to show their largesse to the world and share themselves at the same time. I swear many of them are porn star wannabes and use the internet to try and “get the word out”. I well recall one guy I used to chat with that proclaimed he “did shows” for around a dozen women in a few different countries. He talked of them as if they were fans or groupies!
Mutual Masturbation Chat – You can’t fault a guy for being proud of his assets, I guess. Webcam sex is a big part of many guys masturbation these days, either showing off themselves, or trying to watch young ladies be naughty in front of them. Many are looking for the best of both, a mutual masturbation session to keep both parties entertained. It seems hard for many of them to find willing girls who will do it for fun, and that are not doing it for profit. Cam girls annoy the hell out of most guys it seems, they want a mutual masturbation experience, not some girl that’s only seeking to play for pay.
Look At This – Something many look for at an adult chat site is a partner for cam sex, otherwise known as cam to cam, or c2c. Guys are not only very visual by nature, but I am convinced most have an exhibitionist streak by default. I cannot count the number of guys that ask me daily if I would like to watch them perform on cam for me. Many also ask if I’d like to cam with them, as in show myself as I masturbate at the same time. It’s just not for me, so I decline.
Free Cam Sex – I have spoken to a number of guys that have been blackmailed after cam sex shows they gave or that there has been an attempt at blackmail if the guys show their face or if they have their real name on their Yahoo or Skype. I jokingly said they should wear a mask like Zorro to conceal their face, but if you don’t know someone, I’d suggest setting up a Yahoo of Skype account under a dummy name so your actual name isn’t revealed. Most times you don’t need to worry about people doing something crazy, but it only takes one nut to ruin a lot.
Watch Me Masturbate – The excitement of watching another masturbate as you do yourself for some is extremely arousing, close-ups of dripping cocks and pussies and shooting cum for many proves irresistible and they want to watch and be seen. Many guys also enjoy masturbating with other guys and are not always seeking a female to get off with on cam. There is something to be said for variety for sure. If you are comfortable with your body and like to show off, maybe cam sex is just the ticket for you to spice up your masturbation routine.
Chill Out – Have you been feeling a bit stressed lately? Work been getting you down? No girlfriend to play with, or if you have one she doesn’t want to play as much as you do, right? Just feeling sexually deprived overall, I bet. Ones with a high sex drive and no partner, or ones with a partner that have a low sex drive, get bored with masturbating alone or to porn. It’s so much more fun interacting with another person.
Masturbation Relieves Stress – Ones into cam are very visual, they love to watch, and many guys love to be watched. I’m convinced most guys are exhibitionists at heart. Ones who are aroused by sounds, yours truly included, there’s nothing like hot phone sex to add to your masturbation experience. Hearing another moaning and breathing and describing what you would do to each other…….mmmmmm…ones not into phone sex have NO idea what they are missing in my opinion.
An Orgasm A Day – Cyber fans are wordsmiths at heart, loving descriptive passages of an erotic nature to get their fires stoked. Interacting with another person as you put your thoughts down by texting, while not for me, many adore it. All of these hobbies can help a stressed person relax and for a short while forget their cares of the day. They allow you to truly escape and lose yourself in something else if only for a little while. Masturbation and an orgasm or two, or even more if you’re up for multiple rounds, are very good proven stress relievers. It’s the best possible way to feel exhausted!
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