Showcase Your Roleplaying – Many people that are heavily into cyber sex are also very much into roleplaying. They consider themselves master storytellers and love to type scenarios to their partners as they both enjoy the pictures the words are painting in their minds as they masturbate together. Ones into reading erotic short stories are very often good cyber sexters. Reading the hot, steamy scenarios and seeing that pop up on the screen in front of you live, can be very arousing for many. Stories are often well thought out and plotted before a pen is taken to paper, cyber sex is very instant.
Describe It To Me – Some people are simply too shy for phone sex or cam sex, so cyber sex allows them to have a very hot conversation with someone in not as personal a manner. The cyber sex sessions can go on for hours and even be the base of a good written story. It’s amazing how good some can be at crafting a story right off the top of their head let alone while they are masturbating! Talk about multitasking! It’s very impressive to be a one handed typist and be stimulating your genitals and someone else’s mind at the same time. Some are generous and not masturbating themselves, they might just be typing sexy while the other person enjoys their efforts.
Dirty Words – Sometimes while having cyber sex you might use words a bit stronger than you’d use in your everyday speech, so they have more power to them, some love the word “cunt” and ask for it by name, while others would be a bit reserved to say it much out loud. Writing down words can often give you the opportunity to be a bit bolder with your descriptions than you might in person. Cyber sex partners can often tell each other stories and masturbate for years, getting to know each others kinks and quirks quite well and come up with surprisingly naughty things to entertain themselves with. So if you’re looking for a cyber sex partner, why not check out the forums or the chat rooms and see if you can find a naughty type chat masturbation partner for yourself, you just never know who you might find with a creative mind and an over active libido waiting for you!
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This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red
Who Shall We Play Tonight – Quite simply, if you were an actor in a movie, your character is the fictional persona you take on to portray a role. Much in the same way, a roleplaying character is the “life” you take on. Your character will interact with other characters in storylines or plots to form a game. Your character should have a personality and goals, much like any normal human being.
Roleplay For Masturbation – A storyline, as it will be further elaborated on, is a storyboard, or simplified script of a roleplaying game or session. This helps move action along a particular path to reach a goal. This goal may either be hidden-or revealed through a series of trial and error, or it may be an obvious goal set forth from the beginning of the game. Meanwhile, the characters will interact in this story, grow and develop as meaningful inhabitants of the lands they originate from, and learn valuable life lessons. More or less, you live a life through the conflicts around your character. A storyline is not an integral part for some types of roleplaying, but is always recommended to have a goal, whether it be unstated or stated.
Believe – I mean let’s be frank if its sexual the object is to have a sexual experience, by stimulating your minds to the point when you reach your goal.Some role players want a full detailed resume, before they start. It needs to be discussed in detail. Cyber sex, is telling each other what you want or will do to each other by exchanging thoughts and desires
Don’t Be A Jerk – I wrote the following to a member who had written me and asked what he could do to cut down on his experiences with women online that were cybering or camming with him and then going offline as soon as they came, leaving him in the lurch. I decided my reply was sensible enough to be posted for others to see and hopefully learn something from. Even if you are not a religious sort, the do unto others as you would have them do onto you bit is sound advice that every single person should be practicing.
Assholes Online – Many online are assholes, this will come as no revelation, I am sure. Keyboard warriors who are bold due to their anonymity alone. One way to avoid getting dropped during a cam, phone or cyber session, is not to engage in one until you know the person better, but I know most people come on when they are horny and want something right then. This has never been my personal game plan, it’s like going shopping when you are starving, you’ll grab the nearest morsel you can get.
Don’t Just Be Horny, Be Polite – I realize my personal “audition process” is not what most people do, but it cuts down on bad experiences when you chat with someone a few times before playing, there’s more of an investment of time, so they are not as apt to run off as soon as they cum. Even with this method though, it has happened to me. I have been hung up on by a handful of guys after they came, and I was livid and immediately deleted and blocked them. One I even had chatted with for 6 weeks before playing with him and he did this to me the first and only time we played. I have never done this to one person I have phoned with, even when I knew I’d made a bad choice and would never be playing with them again, I got through it and did it and finished the call.
Cum & Go – I have heard countless guys tell me girls they were phoning, camming, or cybering with some girl who immediately left when they came. There are some rude, inconsiderate individuals out there. Obviously they wouldn’t do that to someone they were looking for a long term online playing relationship with. But a “hit and run encounter” with someone they have no intention of playing with again, they just don’t care. Other sites will be the same, CC doesn’t have the market cornered on thoughtless jerks and bitches, all sites will have the same sorts. Selfish idiots looking to get off and only their own orgasm to care about. Show others some respect and let them finish, even if you know you will not be playing with them again.
You Get What You Give – Karma is a reality, what goes around does indeed come around. Show others the same courtesy and respect you yourself would wish to be shown. Would you like to be hung up on? Your screen go black as they have turned off their cam? See them log out in chat when they say they have cum? I doubt you would. Treat others decently and maybe you will have someone to play with again in the future, and not some one time hit and run encounter that you’d be embarrassed to be confronted about.
Type Sexy To Me – Many people that visit adult chat sites such as this one are very much into and looking for cyber sex. Lots of people that enjoy reading and writing like to carry that talent over into their sexual outlets as well and many times that includes cyber sex . Reading arousing words for many is well, arousing, but getting to see them pop up before your very eyes from someone you are very much attracted to is sexually charged and makes you very horny if that is an interest of yours.
Enhance Your Masturbation – Some people are fast typers and this makes it more enjoyable, since slow typers may lose the interest of the one they are typing to. I can’t imagine trying to type one handed as I masturbate with the other, but for some they seem to enjoy it obviously. If you’re into this, perhaps you can find someone to play with in our chat rooms, we do have a room just for cyber sex aficionado’s. Find a partner to exchange sexy scenarios and role plays with and cum until your balls are drained and your pussy is numb from cumming so much.
Sizzling Cyber Sex – Lots of times authors of the erotic short stories we have here are also into cyber sex, being the lovers of words and painting pictures with their descriptive abilities. Not all authors are into cyber sex, this is true, but you will have to see if you can find someone and see how much they can arouse you with their words. A way into a woman’s panties is through her ears, or in the case of cyber sex, her eyes, since she will be reading the words your write to her. Love letters have always been around, so the power of words has always been with us, just not communicated instantly, imagine a love letter written in pen and ink that would take weeks or even months to arrive? And now words are transmitted across the globe nearly instantly, it’s a very different world we live in nowadays.
Type Sexy To Me – Many people come to adult chat sites like this one looking for cyber sex. As much as I adore phone sex, I do realize it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Ones into cyber sex are often much more concerned about remaining anonymous than ones looking to phone.
Sizzling Cyber Sex – An obvious fact many that engage in cyber sex don’t want to really face, especially if they are men, is that their cyber partner may in fact be another man. Many know this is a possibility, but they seem to try and put this in the back of their mind and not focus on it. Some are able to accept things at face value in this particular realm of online sexual fantasy. Sometimes they simply don’t want to know. Many into cyber sex are also into role playing and when they find another to instantly exchange sexually charged messages with, they feel a real connection and are able to masturbate and lose themselves in the words their cyber sex partner is painting into a graphically sexual picture.
Raunchy Roleplay – Not everyone has the writing talent to craft entire erotic short stories, but many have enough to create much shorter and simpler sexual scenarios describing what they would like to be doing to their partner. I don’t know how you can be typing with one hand, thinking of stuff to type and masturbating all at the same time. Seems waaaay to much effort for my tastes, but cybering does have its fans looking in adult chat rooms for others to erotically type back and forth with.
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