Love Connections – It’s come to my attention from several members telling me, and thanking me, that for them Climax Connection isn’t just a chat site, or a hook up site, but a site where they have made real, true meaningful connections with people. Nothing could make me happier than knowing ones truly ARE connecting here. I wanted a deeper, more meaningful site than just chat with someone for 5 minutes, then cyber and part ways never to cross paths again.
Online Love – The world we live in today is much more global than it ever has been before, many connections and relationships do begin online. People just don’t need to go out to meet people like they did in the past. With ones being far away many times from family, people aren’t meeting partners through family introductions as commonly as they once were. While it is true this site isn’t a traditional dating type of site, it was designed for ones looking for online fun partners, it’s good to know that for several people, and who knows how many more that just haven’t told me, that they are finding even more than that. I’m beginning to feel like a virtual matchmaker.
Reach Out And Touch Someone – For ones that may live in small towns or unable to socialize much in the regular ways, online interactions take on even more importance. Some may not have a sexual partner, so masturbation is their only sexual outlet and finding someone and masturbating with them online, either by cyber, sexting, phone sex or web cam sex. Sharing that intimate part of yourself with another person makes it so much more of an enjoyable experience. I’m just waiting for the announcement of the first Climax Connection wedding! Well, we aren’t quite their just yet, but I’m happy some couples have found happiness because of this site. That was the whole purpose of it.
Tell Me You Love Me – People look for different sorts of interactions when they look online for fun partners. Most are just looking for a fun, good and casual time. Many are happy with one time encounters, like horny ships passing in the night. Others are looking for longer term pairings, where if they are horny they can go back to one another again and again, some such pairings can literally last for years. I was a bit shocked when recently my longest term phone partner of 5 years said I’d been in his life longer than any real life girlfriend he’d had.
I Want You – Some partners for phone sex, cyber sex or cam sex can get involved in each others lives to a degree, others are more secretive and without much real life info from their online partners. Worried about privacy or stalkers or any number of things infringing on their offline life. It can be awkward when one starts to feel more deeply than the other one does and in fact they can fall in love with their online partner. I’d heard many times about the “girlfriend experience”, but one said recently some girls were seeking a “boyfriend experience”. They want an online boyfriend to be there for them, tell them they love them, and sometimes seek offline real encounters as well, and sad to say most guys are only seeking online fun, and are not looking to carry things over into real life.
Online Better Than Real – Many times what we see online is the best of someone, the sexy, adorable side of someone and we grow to fall for them and idealize them. We don’t know what they are really like in their day to day life, we only know what they have chosen to reveal to us, and when all we see is the good and sexy part, it’s not that hard to fall for some of them. Sadly, some of us get hurt in such a situation. Some guys can get scared and flee when an online girl they play with gets “clingy”. I’ve heard this many times from guys. Many guys enjoy bringing an element of realism into especially phone sex play and talk about real life meetings, “Oh wouldn’t it be hot…”, yet when you buy into it and agree to go along, boy do some of them run scared. It’s cruel to lead someone on. Many girls and ladies are emotional sorts and can indeed fall for the online Casanova’s out there and get hurt when things don’t progress as we’d like them to.
Be Strong And Say Goodbye – Long distance relationships today are more common than they were because of the internet. People can meet online that a couple of decades a go would never have met, but online chat rooms and websites bring people together that otherwise would never find each other. One thing that is sadly common in real life relationships is abuse, and you may think how can an online relationship be abusive? Yet it’s more common than you’d think. Abuse can happen in cyber and phone sex relationships as well. Some people we connect with online can be like a drug to us, we know they are bad for us, yet they are so seductive and we are drawn to them like a moth to a flame. There is an intensity to more extreme people that can be abusive and that intensity can be like a hit of heroin we can’t stay away from. Some of the sex can without a doubt be the hottest and most intense in an abusive situation, there’s a love/hate combo going on that can make for very hot times.
Don’t Let Them Back In – It’s a lot easier to brush someone off online, after all, many times all we have is an email address or an online chat ID, maybe if phone sex was involved, a phone number. You can easily block a person’s ID so they can’t contact you, but if they are determined enough, they can create a new ID in a few minutes. Some people will keep going back at you to the point of harassment. What happens though when one person, the more trusting and kinder of the two, allows that person back in time after time, no matter how badly they may have been treated? You’d think how can they let themselves get sucked in time after time to the same ill treatment? Some of us are sadly gluttons for punishment indeed, and if we would tolerate that sort of behavior in real life, we likely would online as well.
You Deserve Better – Willpower is something you need to allow yourself to break free from an abusive online relationship. You always want to believe them, that they have changed, that they will no longer treat you badly, but the sad fact is, they do not want to change and that’s the hard part to accept. When you have seen how nice and sexy and sweet someone can appear and then you see their true colors, it can be hard to accept that the one we had feelings for, “the nice them”, doesn’t really exist and isn’t coming back. That is the mask they showed us at the beginning to suck us in with, not the true them, which is what we learn they really are. Predators aren’t always rapists or murderers, they can be people online that truly don’t care anything about you that seek to use you, harass you and make you feel bad, it’s nothing but a game to them. They are likely cowards who don’t have anyone in real life so find easy prey online they can manipulate for their own entertainment.
Please Don’t Hurt Me – So what do you do when one of your online fun partners gets more serious about you than you are about them or vice versa? It’s not a pleasant situation and I’ve been on both sides of this. Cam, phone sex and cybering are all important activities to the ones involved in them. Guys, and I assume gals, fall into different categories in our online play. Some are fun, like friends we play with, joke around with, but it never gets serious.
I Love You So Much – Friends like these though, it never gets intense and intensity, to some of us anyway, can be like that hit of heroin. Intensity is what makes us feel alive and crave more. Some partners can be like this, even ones that can be total nut jobs we’re better staying away from, they have a pull, a draw, and we can’t get enough. It’s a sad thing when one of you feels more deeply about the other, someone is bound to get hurt. Some want to meet in real life and when the other one doesn’t want to, you can feel very hurt and rejected by this person that has come to mean so much to you, and to them sadly they just view you as an online fun partner and nothing more.
It Felt So Real – I always remember one guy I chatted with that said he never phoned with a girl more than once because he “didn’t want them falling in love with him.” I recall laughing so hard thinking what a high opinion he had of himself to come to this bizarre way of thinking. Obviously he and many others wish to avoid drama, and emotional messiness which can sometimes result when feelings become involved. It is very, very cruel to ever lead anyone on and make them believe in any way something real and offline can result if you do not indeed feel that way, and several people I’ve known like to heighten things and make it seem like a possibility when in fact it’s just adding a further dimension of enjoyment to make it seem real.
You Broke My Heart – The more vulnerable party gets very badly emotionally crushed as a result. Be careful when someone hands you their heart. And sadly when things like this happen, and one gets hurt, you often lose the best masturbation partner you ever had because it can’t ever go back to being how it was before. The one doing the heartbreaking often feels badly they’ve hurt the other person, and the one pining away often feels so rejected and foolish they can’t enjoy the other person anymore.
I Need Your Cock – Does your boyfriend or husband go away a lot on business? Or do you have a long distance relationship with someone? Or maybe you play with with someone regularly online but will never get to meet them, but fantasize about their cock and how it would feel to have it inside of you since you’ll likely never get the real thing from them.
Take Masturbation To The Next Level – A kit like this is the perfect idea for you for all of those scenarios. You can get your man to make a clone of his own cock for you to enjoy in his absence. Imagine feeling the exact replica of their cock inside of you when they themselves are thousands of miles away! No generic store brand dildo for you, you can have their exact cock shape inside of you as you masturbate, perhaps while talking to them on the phone. What a hot phone sex date that would be, using their “cock” inside of you as you played together on cam or on the phone.
Sex Toys For Your Pussy – Online sex shops have thousands of different products featured on them, sure you can choose from tons of dildos out there, but wouldn’t one made from the guy you desire so much mean more than just any old toy? It would for sure, the thought of having the cock inside of you of your online lover you will never have for real is very exciting indeed. If you have thought of this, ask your online lover if they would considering making a duplicate of their cock for you to enjoy. I bet they will.
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