I Don’t Like This – What do you do when a fantasy has gone too far? Let’s say you’ve been acting out all the fantasies your partner has requested. They’ve wanted you to dress up like a seedy prostitute and do the whole role playing thing. That was fun. Now your partner wants to introduce an actual prostitute into your love making. How do you tell your partner that you’re not willing do to that? There are many other fantasies that can be taken too far.
A Step Too Far – A woman may want to strap on a dildo and pretend to have gay sex with her man. What happens if she ends up wanting to watch her partner having sex with another man? Your partner may not realize their fantasy is being taken to an extreme. They may also think that you’re wanting to take things to the next level. Don’t allow yourself to feel pressured into doing something you don’t want to. Sex should be fun and exciting. The second that it becomes uncomfortable is the time to back away. You should never feel uncomfortable having sex with someone you trust. If you do, it’s time to put a stop to whatever is going on.
No Means No – How do you tell your partner that the fantasy has gone too far? You’re just going to have to be blunt about it. Beating around the bush won’t make them feel like you’re serious. You need to be very straight forward and say exactly what you’re thinking. Anything less will give them the impression that you may want to do it at a later date. Make sure there’s no room for confusion. Lay it all out for them as plain of a manner as you can. This will let your partner know there are boundaries in your relationship that can’t be crossed. This is healthy and such boundaries should be expected in every relationship.
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Who Shall We Play Tonight – Quite simply, if you were an actor in a movie, your character is the fictional persona you take on to portray a role. Much in the same way, a roleplaying character is the “life” you take on. Your character will interact with other characters in storylines or plots to form a game. Your character should have a personality and goals, much like any normal human being.
Roleplay For Masturbation – A storyline, as it will be further elaborated on, is a storyboard, or simplified script of a roleplaying game or session. This helps move action along a particular path to reach a goal. This goal may either be hidden-or revealed through a series of trial and error, or it may be an obvious goal set forth from the beginning of the game. Meanwhile, the characters will interact in this story, grow and develop as meaningful inhabitants of the lands they originate from, and learn valuable life lessons. More or less, you live a life through the conflicts around your character. A storyline is not an integral part for some types of roleplaying, but is always recommended to have a goal, whether it be unstated or stated.
Believe – I mean let’s be frank if its sexual the object is to have a sexual experience, by stimulating your minds to the point when you reach your goal.Some role players want a full detailed resume, before they start. It needs to be discussed in detail. Cyber sex, is telling each other what you want or will do to each other by exchanging thoughts and desires
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This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red
Use Your Imagination – Not everybody has the imagination for Role Play, but knows how to have Cyber Sex. What is the difference, Role Play is being a character in a scene set out between the participants, Cyber is being yourself and telling others what you want to do or what you’re doing.
Be Creative – To play a role one has to be able to adapt quickly to different situations, they can be fantasy, or fact, but should always be an interesting and exciting subject. It’s a bit like play acting using ones brain instead of a script and improvising it may be pretending to be something or someone you aren’t normally, or a version of yourself. Many think that roleplaying is limited to scary dungeons and big fire breathing dragons, or even your boss, teacher, student, girlfriend, boyfriends, roleplaying in a psychiatrist’s office, but true roleplaying can incorporate anything from futuristic science fiction robots to blonde bimbos with big guns (and I do mean machine guns). Roleplaying is about experiencing new people, places, thoughts, and ways of thinking that you may not normally encounter.
Sexual Scenarios – First, think of a sexual situation that you would find either fun or challenging, preferably both, and put yourself into that situation. How would you react? Congratulations, you’ve just experienced a small part of roleplaying. Now, find some willing or unwilling persons that you know may enjoy this sort of thing. Then, find a secure location to role play a Private Chat in Climax Connection Chat room perhaps. Next, you need to create characters, storylines, and get the equipment you need – this may include, dice, books, props, and other such items. Last, role play to your heart’s content.
Who Will You Be Tonight – Many people that enjoy cyber sex are also very much into fantasy role playing. I can’t even count how many times I have gotten an inbox message from guys with some long, elaborate, detailed role play scene. They could have saved themselves the trouble of their copy and paste if they’d read my profile in the first place and saw it’s not my particular interest, but guys being guys, they tend to cast a wide net and hope some gal they sent it to will reply back to them.
Be My Neighbor – The naughty neighbor lady is a popular one among guys that seem to enjoy the cougar/cub fantasy. The lonely neighbor lady that may just have an out of town husband that’s been neglecting her and they are only too willing to let the young neighbor boy look after their needs. The handsome young lad that’s horny and often not that experienced and is looking for a caring, affectionate, mature lady willing to guide them into manhood with blissful abandon, errant husband be damned.
Welcome To My Fantasy – Some impress me with their creativity, but it seems like a fair bit of work to me, I’m more grounded in reality, but to each their own. Some love to indulge in a good fantasy, escape the realities of their hum drum lives and let a tale take on a life of its own for them. It can enhance the experience for them and get them off a little bit better than if they just acted themselves. Many people come to an adult chat rooms to find other partners willing to play along with them and join in the fantasy together, masturbating while pretending they are living out this extraordinary fantasy that enhances their masturbation.
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