What Does It Mean? – First of all what it stands for – Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission. Im sure most of you must have wanted to try it at some time but you are probably too afraid what your partner might think of it. What you dont know is, women are just as wild as you are in many cases on the inside. Some may want you to be in charge while some may want to be in full control. But if you never ask or talk to them, you will never know! The popularity of movies and books like the Fifty Shades of Gray series has really brought BDSM to the attention of the masses, and not just the fringes of society
Fun Accessories – The first thing that comes to your mind from BDSM must be blindfolds, chains, handcuffs and strap-ons. There is much more to it actually but yes, those are the little steps. You can find all of these things online. If you want to save yourself some bucks, go for a combined bondage fantasy kit. It will contain all of the above-stated items and much more. Maybe some floggers, candles for dripping hot wax, all kinds of goodies.
Reversing Roles – If you already know that your partner is open to all sorts of kinky stuff, you can plan a whole surprise for her, or ladies, you can do it for your man as well. Sometimes men don’t like to be in charge and want you to be the creative one and in control. Be his domme for the night, and him your more than willing submissive, there is nothing as sexy as a woman who can show what she wants and how its done. So break out those whips and blindfolds and try something different tonight!
I Don’t Like This – What do you do when a fantasy has gone too far? Let’s say you’ve been acting out all the fantasies your partner has requested. They’ve wanted you to dress up like a seedy prostitute and do the whole role playing thing. That was fun. Now your partner wants to introduce an actual prostitute into your love making. How do you tell your partner that you’re not willing do to that? There are many other fantasies that can be taken too far.
A Step Too Far – A woman may want to strap on a dildo and pretend to have gay sex with her man. What happens if she ends up wanting to watch her partner having sex with another man? Your partner may not realize their fantasy is being taken to an extreme. They may also think that you’re wanting to take things to the next level. Don’t allow yourself to feel pressured into doing something you don’t want to. Sex should be fun and exciting. The second that it becomes uncomfortable is the time to back away. You should never feel uncomfortable having sex with someone you trust. If you do, it’s time to put a stop to whatever is going on.
No Means No – How do you tell your partner that the fantasy has gone too far? You’re just going to have to be blunt about it. Beating around the bush won’t make them feel like you’re serious. You need to be very straight forward and say exactly what you’re thinking. Anything less will give them the impression that you may want to do it at a later date. Make sure there’s no room for confusion. Lay it all out for them as plain of a manner as you can. This will let your partner know there are boundaries in your relationship that can’t be crossed. This is healthy and such boundaries should be expected in every relationship.
This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, Random Writer.
Get Closer – Spicing up your sex life is important. It’s more than just pleasure. Sex is also about bonding. It gives you the ability to bond with your partner. This is something that can’t be overlooked. You should always seek ways to strengthen your relationship. Sex is the best way of doing so. It’s hard to argue with someone when you’re enjoying a moment of blissful passion.
Dress Up – Women, it’s important that you realize men are visual creatures. They think with their eyes first. Then the brain follows along. This is why lingerie is always a hot seller. It will be from now until the end of time. It doesn’t have to be expensive or anything over the top. After all, you’re probably not going to be wearing it for too long. Just a sexy pair of panties and a bra will do. Break out the special pair for the times you want to get kinky. You’ll notice his interest in you right away. All it will take is a quick flash and he’ll be following you into the bedroom.
A Change Of Scenery – Renting a hotel room for the night can be a great way to spice up your love life. Especially if you don’t live alone. Let your parents babysit the kids for a night. They’ll love being around them. You’ll love having some alone time with your man. You won’t have to worry about being quiet or anyone walking in on you. The two of you will be able to enjoy hot passionate sex. Either that or finally being able to watch your favorite television program in silence for a change.
Who Are You – Role playing is another great way to make things exciting. You can be the naughty nurse or he can be the plumber. Be as creative as you want. It’s your fantasy. This is a way that you can live out things without having to step outside of your relationship. It’s a healthy way to change things up a bit. You can take role playing as far as you like. You can wear costumes and even pretend to be different people. You can be the actress you’ve always dreamed of. While exciting your biggest fan in the process.
Spice Things Up – There you have some fun and exciting ways to add pizzazz to your sex life. Dull and boring is never fun. That’s why you should always seek new ways to change things. Great sex is an important part of any relationship. It’s the very thing everyone should strive for. Get out there and do something kinky. Your partner will be the happiest person on planet earth if you do!
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This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red
Who Shall We Play Tonight – Quite simply, if you were an actor in a movie, your character is the fictional persona you take on to portray a role. Much in the same way, a roleplaying character is the “life” you take on. Your character will interact with other characters in storylines or plots to form a game. Your character should have a personality and goals, much like any normal human being.
Roleplay For Masturbation – A storyline, as it will be further elaborated on, is a storyboard, or simplified script of a roleplaying game or session. This helps move action along a particular path to reach a goal. This goal may either be hidden-or revealed through a series of trial and error, or it may be an obvious goal set forth from the beginning of the game. Meanwhile, the characters will interact in this story, grow and develop as meaningful inhabitants of the lands they originate from, and learn valuable life lessons. More or less, you live a life through the conflicts around your character. A storyline is not an integral part for some types of roleplaying, but is always recommended to have a goal, whether it be unstated or stated.
Believe – I mean let’s be frank if its sexual the object is to have a sexual experience, by stimulating your minds to the point when you reach your goal.Some role players want a full detailed resume, before they start. It needs to be discussed in detail. Cyber sex, is telling each other what you want or will do to each other by exchanging thoughts and desires
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This is a guest blog submission by Climax Connection member, eric60red
Use Your Imagination – Not everybody has the imagination for Role Play, but knows how to have Cyber Sex. What is the difference, Role Play is being a character in a scene set out between the participants, Cyber is being yourself and telling others what you want to do or what you’re doing.
Be Creative – To play a role one has to be able to adapt quickly to different situations, they can be fantasy, or fact, but should always be an interesting and exciting subject. It’s a bit like play acting using ones brain instead of a script and improvising it may be pretending to be something or someone you aren’t normally, or a version of yourself. Many think that roleplaying is limited to scary dungeons and big fire breathing dragons, or even your boss, teacher, student, girlfriend, boyfriends, roleplaying in a psychiatrist’s office, but true roleplaying can incorporate anything from futuristic science fiction robots to blonde bimbos with big guns (and I do mean machine guns). Roleplaying is about experiencing new people, places, thoughts, and ways of thinking that you may not normally encounter.
Sexual Scenarios – First, think of a sexual situation that you would find either fun or challenging, preferably both, and put yourself into that situation. How would you react? Congratulations, you’ve just experienced a small part of roleplaying. Now, find some willing or unwilling persons that you know may enjoy this sort of thing. Then, find a secure location to role play a Private Chat in Climax Connection Chat room perhaps. Next, you need to create characters, storylines, and get the equipment you need – this may include, dice, books, props, and other such items. Last, role play to your heart’s content.
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