Met up with my finsub for the first time, but now I’m a little confused. He said he was broke after paying for my flight, so I sent him money for our dates and shopping spree. I felt like it was the ethical thing to do since I’m staying at his place, and he’s been giving me unbelievable orgasms while I abuse... I mean... Domme him. But now he’s calling me his sugar mama. Am I findomming right?