I am 27m and my wife is 27f this is a burner acct.
Basically the title. Would like to spice up our sex life a little. I have asked her to give me rimjobs before and she has, she has also on her own accord stuck a finger in during said rimjobs. I enjoy both of those things and they both make me climax pretty quick so she try’s to avoid it because she likes to do some foreplay of various things then have regular sex. Im afraid to talk to her about it though because most strap ons from what I’ve seen come with big realistic penis dildos and I don’t want her to think that I’m wanting to take it from a dude and just asking her to fill in place of that. Basically want to take it in the butt from my wife but don’t know how to ask her without her thinking I’m secretly gay or something.