There are current issues with updating scripts and the chat since the server move on Oct. 14, 2015. As I outline in this post here,
http://www.climaxconnection.com/forum/67/important-announcements/2449/changes-coming/ The problems are so great I have decided to switch web hosts over this. We are also getting new NON flash chat in the new year.
You can see if someone has blocked you if on the bottom of their page it says you must be logged in or registered to post on this members wall. Or if you go to send them a message and it says you are blocked. Even if you were blocked you would see them in chat in the members list.
I am sorry for the difficulties, they have been out of my hands, as I said I am so upset with these issues I am changing web hosts to leave them as their support has gone down the tubes. I am afraid until we get new chat, by March, which is thousands of dollars, these issues may persist.
Anyone that can contribute to the new chat, it would be appreciated a lot. I know it's showed my regular account as being in chat for days and I haven't even had time to go in much, too busy working hard to pay for this place....